Is Your Penis Too Small to Please Women?

Most men, at one time or another, have asked themselves that very question. Let me ask you a different question. Has a sexual partner told you your penis is too small? Has she snickered and giggled when you displayed, what you thought, was your raging erection? 99.9% of men would reply “No” to such questions. So why would you think your penis is too small?

The pornographic industry has had a huge impact on the physic of men. There are exceptions, but for the most part men are entranced and excited to view porno videos. Every person has their own reason, but they normally fall within these few categories.

* They have the opportunity to view beautiful naked women.

* They want to learn sexual techniques to use themselves on their sexual partners.

* They enjoy experiencing the arousal that these videos create, especially in younger males.

* It’s just what guys do.

These are all emotions felt by both male and females and without getting into a debate over the religious or social concerns, normal. However, one issue which men won’t admit is the fact they are comparing, either consciously or unconsciously, themselves to the male “actors” in these videos.

Unless it’s a video specifically produced to focus on a smaller than normal penis, these participants all have a huge sized penis. Penis’s of 8″ to 14″ in length and 2″ to 4″ in girth are the norm. The beautiful and desirable women in these videos scream with delight as the men utilize these huge tools in every imaginable way. (every man’s desire).

When the video ends men stare in horror at the difference in size of their penis versus the men in the videos. Is it any wonder why men feel their penis is too small to please their sexual partner?

What’s Next? How about another kick in the balls about your Penis size without video!

The discovery of the internet created an infinite amount of information which is available at the click of a mouse. Enterprising entrepreneurs, knowing sex sells, flocked to the internet creating porno sites of every conceivable type and content.

All porno sites have a sales page and most have a “free tour” displaying beautiful horny women engaging in sexual acts. Now, obviously since no one held a gun to your head to be on the site its surmised you want to see pictures of people engaging in sex. You’re too cheap or afraid your spouse will discover you paid money to join the site, so you anxiously and quickly flip through the various pictures until you find one that grabs your fancy. You click it.

In the picture is a gorgeous naked woman, wide eyed and screaming in delight as she’s being pounded by a man with a, you guessed it, huge penis. Although the woman desperately wants to, this penis is so large she can’t physically fit it all into her. Forced to revert to another method the woman holds the man’s penis with both hands, one on top of the other, and gives the remaining 6″ of penis protruding past her hands, a torrid blow job.

You travel to another picture where the couple sits on a couch and the woman gazes with admiration at the size of man’s penis, which happens to be large enough to be laying against his chest as he proudly holds it up for display.

Now you immolate the guy in the photo and hold your massive erection, which if you’re very lucky reaches your belly button. It doesn’t take an Einstein to figure out why men feel their penis is too small to please their partner.

Fact or Fiction? Do you have an average size penis or not?

By now your ego and self esteem are totally destroyed and you’re considering hari kari or becoming a monk. Since neither of those options hold much personal appeal let’s try something else. Let’s try something quite unique, looking at the truth of what the “average” size penis for an adult male actually is.

Ready? Drum roll please. Scientifically, the average size of an adult male penis is between 5 ½” to 6″ in length and between 1 ½” to 2″ in girth. Length is measured from the pelvic bone to the tip of the head of an erect penis.

I can already hear the tool box drawers slamming as we search for seldom used tape measurers. Perhaps the kid’s school ruler will work just as well, how do I steal it away from little Johnny without arousing suspicion? Relax and take a deep breath. I guarantee you that 98% of you will fall within the average size penis parameters.

What about those long dongs you grew up watching in the porno flicks? Well, it’s a fact of life that there are always exceptions to the rule, whatever rule you’re discussing. There are some men which are more well endowed than most just like there are some men taller and larger than most. Because you are 5′ 7″ and not 6′ 8″ does not mean you are any less of a man and in many circumstances your lack of extreme height is a benefit, not a hindrance. Would you rather be short or tall when participating in a limbo contest? Silly example, but the truth remains constant and I think you get the point.

There are certain women who have the physical capabilities and desire to engage a huge penis. However, for the most part women are as frightened of a 12″ penis as men are envious. They much prefer the normal sized penis, however with a man that knows how to use it. What does that mean?

We’ll discuss that subject in the next forum and hopefully with the full participation of our female readers.

Great Techniques to Improve Your Sex Life!

There are so many simple ways to improve your sex life such as: listening to each other, role playing and even experimenting with sex toys.

If you are finding things to be stale or fading, then take some time out and talk to each other. You will need to really listen to each other and figure out what the other feels or may want to change.

Even if you are shy and you are with someone you love and trust then you should lower your shyness and give it a try. You may even find out by listening that you may be thinking the same thing that your partner is.

You may both want something as simple as cuddling before or after or not spending so much time in one spot of your body. You should open up and at least try something once. Sex is something that you share with your partner so you will want to give and get.

If you need to add some spice to your sex life then you can try to role play. It can be fun. You can do what ever want during role playing. You can use costumes, props, or even other people.

These kinds of games can also be fantasies so the sky is the limit. If you want to use costumes you can decide together and go to an adult store and buy some stuff or even a costume shop and buy costumes. Or you can go on your own.

Depending on what you have in mind you may not need much to get the job done. Some costumes that are used most are fireman, milk man, post man, French maid, or even the boss. Some people have fantasies about sleeping with the boss.

So you can have your partner play the role of the boss and then they can switch and you can be the boss. Some woman would love to check out a fireman’s hose, so put on a coat and hat and show her your hose and start her fire.

Your partner may have a thing for the postman thing. You can knock on the door in shorts and a short sleeved shirt and offer to put something into her slot.

Some times it may only take watching a sex show or porno to get things started. You can go to the video store and rent one or even buy one at a local adult novelty shop. You can spice up a movie with atmosphere.

You can use low lights, wine, and candles. You can also wear a slinky nightgown or lingerie. You may even learn something new to try from a video. Just try to enjoy what ever you do this is not a test or a scored game it is for your satisfaction so relax and have fun.

To learn more about how to spice up your sex life,

Working with Royalty Free Music

When creating Multi-Media Content, Flash or Video Clips for a client’s web or CD-Rom Project, the last thing you want is to get him in trouble with the law. If there’s a need for music in a project, using royalty free music is essential.

Here are some general music tips that you may find useful:

1) Finding the right kind of music

There are hundreds of choices when it comes to royalty free music and making the right decision can be hard. After all, most TV production companies have music supervisors on staff whose only job it is to select appropriate music for projects. Selecting music is an art in itself. In general, you will find that your clients would prefer to use something they heard on the radio, something from their favorite album etc. Unfortunately, that’s copyrighted stuff and licensing an N Sync song for your next ‘how to’ video or CD-Rom may cost you a fortune. What you want to do is find buyout music that sounds similar to today’s popular music. It’s a little harder to find than your typical ‘canned’ music. A lot royalty free music may sound like music from a 70’s sitcom or worse, a cheap porno flick.

A good place to check out is  All their tracks are created by established record producers with grammy and gold record credits so you get music that sounds as up-to-date as what you may hear on the radio.

Our tip: Always use music that sounds just a little more energetic than you think you may need. You may listen to the music over and over while you’re putting together your project while the end user may only hear it a few times.

2) Less is not more in production music

When you are looking for background music for a project, choose music with some impact. I know it is supposed to be background music but if you choose high energy tracks, your whole project will leave more of an impression. Listen to a sampling of today’s TV commercials and you’ll find that most of them use very powerful music. You want your work to create an impact and keep viewer’s attention and a strong, powerful soundtrack can do that.

3) When ‘legal’ music is not legal

The usage license on your buyout music CD may be very liberal but it is not a license to steal. You can use royalty free music on all of your projects and as you have the legal right to use the music, your customers can be assured not to get into legal troubles.

However, that license is only extended to you, the purchaser. You cannot transfer that license by copying your CD and giving it to somebody else or by selling the CD. This may be news to you but there’s no such thing as a ‘used buyout music CD’ If you don’t purchase the music from the producers of the music, it won’t be legal still. So, next time you browse eBay for royalty free music, make sure you are buying a new CD, not a used one or it will be useless to you.

4) You get what you pay for

While we’re on the topic of eBay: You may find offers for entire 4 or 6 CD libraries for $75 or other ridiculously low prices on eBay. The truth is, these CDs may not even be worth that low price.

One good quality royalty free music CD will cost you between $29 and $69 (some even more) If it’s less than that, here’s what you are likely to get:

  1. Discontinued titles that have been around for 10, 20 or more and not only sound dated but may also have already found its way onto hundreds or thousands of other projects during the years to make your own project sound dated.
  2. Homegrown CDs that are created in somebody’s bedroom studio. You can easily recognize these CDs as they usually don’t have any ‘real’ instruments on it, only synthesized stuff. You can clearly hear the difference between those CDs and something produced in a real studio with real musicians. Our tip: Check out  for music. Each of their CDs is only $29.95 and each title contains between 30 and 48 real studio recorded tracks.

5) CD or Download?

With the event of high-speed internet, you don’t really have to wait anymore to receive your Royalty Free Music CD in the mail. If you need tracks fast, you can now download buyout music from the net. You can choose only the tracks you need and get to use them within minutes. Single downloadable tracks usually cost a little more money per track than buying a whole CD. On the other hand, you don’t have to buy a whole CD if you only need one or two tracks.

My advice, if you are buying music to ‘keep on the shelf’ for future projects and for your customers to choose from, buy physical CDs. If you need just one or two ‘perfect’ tracks or if you are on a deadline, downloadable purchases may be perfect for you. I don’t know if I have to mention it, but purchasing a Mariah Carey track from Itunes or Napster for a buck does not entitle you to use the music. You have to download your music from a buyout music company so the track is licensed to you.

6) Make your own

You may think, ‘are you crazy? I’m not a musician’ You don’t have to be a music genius anymore these days. Programs like Acid and Apple’s Garageband allow you to create original music by using ‘loops’ Loops are pre-made musical chunks of drums, bass, guitar, strings, whatever, that you can put together like a mosaic to create your own music soundtrack.

The advantage is clear. By creating your own music with a loops program you can make absolutely sure that nobody else is using the exact same music on their project. This will give you ‘original’ music at Buyout Music Prices. All you need is a good musical ear and a couple of loops CDs to get you started. You can find lots of loops CDs and more info at  Their Groove Construction Kits are a great way to get started with music loops. And here’s the best news, you can download the Acid program for free. Just visit for free (and legal) downloads of Acid, Protools and many other great music and sound tools.

I hope that these tips were useful to you. You are free to use or reprint this article in your newsletter, ezine, or on your web .